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can you really be friends with exs
Its really really hard but you can. You both need to know what you want from each other. And you need to both put the past behind you, which is hard, but most important. Im friends with maybe only one of my exes. Me and him went out like three years ago, we’ve both changed a lot but we’re still the same people underneath it all. Other ones, im not on good terms with, or im cool with but i never see them and we’re nothing alike now, and one of them tried to bend our friendship into a booty call so i dropped them all together ahaha.
Its hard work, sometimes it works, sometimes it just wont, so dont push for something thats not meant to be. But it can be worth it if both parties are willing.
